On Losing Those You Love

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I find it helpful to know that people or pets or anything we love that has passed on to another plane do not belong to us.  They did not leave us. They moved on.  We should be happy for them, and if we did anything to help them or make their lives more pleasant on this rock, be proud of that and find comfort in it.  They will remember those things and us as we remember them.
When I pass on, I’ve actually got a few in the animal world that I want to talk to first, before anyone else, and know that they are alright.  I think my family members will understand.

Personally, I often think of those that have passed on as having gone somewhere over the rainbow. For some that is Heaven, for others it might be a more scientific -  quantum physics musing.   No difference really. 

Regardless, I feel that I know that those that have left this rock are better off than we.  Free from this bio-chemical bag of flesh and bones we move around in.  Free from age or physical hardships or thoughts muddled by failing neurons and receptors.   Free to explore the universe or just find a warm place to take a nap or maybe somehow help someone who is on the physical journey and needs that help. 

What else would one do for eternity ?  Some constant search for self-gratification that only involves yourself?  Sounds boring, non-artistic, selfish, rude, lacking in imagination and most of all lacking in satisfaction. Sounds like the lowest level of thought.

Personally, I think it would be great to spend a lot of the time travelling the dimensions, helping children, cats, dogs, snakes, plants, whatever along in their journey through the physical world.  Adults not so much.  Kids over 18 need to suck it up and not find themselves in a position to cry for help - generally speaking. They’ve had some time to scope out the rock they live on and prepare for it.  Though some exception can be given for things going on such as are happening in Japan.  Even adults need some comfort from that kind of immeasurable pain.

So, a couple tunes come to mind.  (If you click on the play button and it says 'an error occurred' [which happens a lot lately], click on the 'youtube' icon on the lower right instead)

I'm so tied but I can't sleep...
standing on the edge of something much too deep... 
It’s funny how we feel so much but we cannot say a word
We are screaming inside, but we can’t be heard..



Damn Sam.



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